PLAYING THE PART
Managing expectations on all fronts is one of the hardest aspects of her job. At any given time, aside from being the numbers person, she is playing coordinator, mediator, friend, and even, bringer of bad news. More so now, with safety regulations, guest restrictions and other protocols in place due to COVID-19, Charlene finds herself playing the role of a party pooper more often. “It is sometimes hard for couples to understand these rules. I have to patiently explain to them that not all things on their wish list may be possible to execute. I also have to remind them that I am just the messenger,” she laughs. But she takes all the demands, arguments and meltdowns in her stride. “It is the biggest day of their life (the bridal couple) and I am a part of that—I think that’s amazing,” she gushes, preferring to look at the larger scheme of things.
In that sense, there is truly no aspect of her job that Charlene dislikes. Even when it means missing a holiday or two.
The oldest of three children, Charlene comes from a closeknit Eurasian family set-up. So, one can understand her initial disappointment having to work on Christmas Day for a wedding. But at the end of the wedding, which she admits turned out to be loads of fun, she found herself saying: “this isn’t too bad. This Christmas was just a bit different.” “This kind of job, you have to really have a love for it—you cannot love your weekends or public holidays,” Charlene laughs. Luckily, she has great friends who willingly work around her erratic schedule. And she is in it for all of it. “The speeches are my favourite part,” she admits, and before her denial that she is a romantic even sinks in, “especially the part where the groom cries!” “When I first started in weddings, it was all about the march-in, the gown—the glitter and glamour of it all. But now, these kind of memories and emotional moments matter more to me,” she explains. Maybe one day she will take the plunge with someone who is equally moved to tears on the most important day of their lives. Until then, she is happy helping build tangible dream castles for others.
The original article was published on the Jan-Feb’21 issue of Longitude, ONE°15 Marina’s Club magazine. Read it here.